Get It Where You Fit In

Being “Original” in thought and action is an accomplishment we all strive for.

Fitting InC. W. Stratton

To be “Original” is to be independent in thought or action.  Then you have the obvious definition; to be the first.  However, we will concentrate on the first listed definition and assess how this plays out in some of our personal lives.  For some, the idea of being independent in thought or actions can be quite scary.  This may be due to the fear of what others may say or think about us.  As a result of this, we default to living off of someone else’s’ idea’s, successes, achievements, and direction.  Although our learning is rooted from obtaining information from outside sources such as parents, friends, teachers or colleagues, many us have remained dependent on these sources even in adulthood.  Our dependency on the aforementioned makes decision-making and problem solving non-existent; no effort needed.

Standing alone or standing for something you believe in, when no one else will, can be nerve-racking and frightening.  Since we refuse to experience these feeling, we decide to follow the status quo, even if we don’t agree with it internally.  We compromise our inner-strength, knowledge and natural abilities, just to fit in.  Eventually we are encapsulated by the opinions, beliefs and values of others.  Obviously, not all of us can be originators of ideas and certain accomplishments but at some point in the process we should have acquired our own direction for our lives, as we see fit.  There are those who have inadequacies and insecurities that have been engrained in us over the years.  We bring those same inadequacies and insecurities into our current circumstances.  The fear of revealing these keeps us motivated to fit in where we may actually never fit it.  This creates life-dissatisfaction and a lack of fulfillment.

We must begin tapping into our innate abilities and identify what our true passions are in life.  This will provide direction which will result in becoming motivated to be our true-selves.  Fear can be a motivator but in many cases, it becomes a barrier to accomplishment.  Courage must be found in the midst of fear.  There are those who may not agree with the direction you have chosen for your life, but make sure your direction is positive, fulfilling and have the ability to reach others who may be in an indecisive place in their lives.  Become an example of the wonders that life can offer and never short-change yourself when it comes to your goals and desires.  You are only given one life, make it count.

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